Saturday, April 16, 2011

MEN WHO HAVE A HETEROSEXUAL LIFE WHO ARE ON THE "DOWN LOW"


WOW I NEVER THOUGHT THAT CERTAIN RACES REFER TO HOMOSEXUAL SEXUALITY IN DIFFERENT MANNER. I THOUGHT IT WAS EITHER YOUR HETEROSEXUAL, BISEXUAL OR GAY. NOW DID YOU KNOW THAT THE WORD "DL"(DOWNLOW) WAS UNIQUELY AN AFRICAN-AMERICAN CREATION. **I REPEAT DO NOT TAKE ANY OFFENSE ON THIS ARTICLE**. THE DOWNLOW IS A VIP PARTY FOR "MASCULINE" BLACK MEN WHO WILL NEVER ADMIT TO BEING HOMOSEXUAL. AS I READ MORE ARTICLES ABOUT MEN ON THE "D.L" IT BLEW ME AWAY(NOT LITERALLY, LITERALLY LOL). AS THE WORD DOWN LOW BECAME MORE FAMILIAR WITH OTHER CULTURES SLOWLY BUT SURELY THEY ADOPTED IT ALSO. "GET OUT OF MY CLOSET" BY Benoit Denizet-Lewis, BROKE THE WHOLE "DL" SEXUALITY DOWN FOR ME. AS STATED IN HIS ARTICLE: "We know there are black gay rappers, black gay athletes, but they're all on the DL,'' Rakeem, a black gay man from Atlanta, told me three years ago when I interviewed him for my Down Low story. "If you're white, you can come out as an openly gay skier or actor or whatever. It might hurt you some, but it's not like if you're black and gay, because then it's like you've let down the whole black community, black women, black history, black pride."
TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AS A MAN AND HAVE THE "AMERICAN DREAM" BECAUSE SOCIETY SAYS YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED HAVE KIDS AND LIVE IN A HOUSE WITH A WHITE PICKET FENCE, THAT'S THE RIGHT WAY. ALSO THE HIV RATE IS HIGH WITH MEN WHO ARE ON THE DOWNLOW SO THIS LEAVE THEIR WOMEN PRONE TO LORD KNOW WHAT KIND OF DISEASE IF THERE NOT PROTECTING THEMSELVES. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THESE MEN ON THE "DL" COVER IS BLOWN? (EXAMPLE MR.CEE) WHAT HAPPENS WHEN ALL IS EXPOSED? WHAT ARE THE LEFT TO DO? THE ANSWER IS IF THEY WERE BEING UPFRONT ABOUT THEIR SEXUALITY THEN THEY WOULDN'T NEED TO CREATE LIES THAT SNOW BALL TO A WEB FULL OF LIES. THE SAD THING IS WOMEN CAN SAY THERE BISEXUAL WITH IT BEING SO MUCH OF AN ISSUE. SOME PEOPLE THINK IS SEXY AND THEY WILLING TO EXCEPT THAT. THANK GOD, GOD MADE ME A WOMAN, BUT I SAY IF YOU CAN'T BE TRUE TO YOU THAN WHAT DO YOU HAVE? YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE SO LIVE FREE IN WHATEVER WAY YOU CHOOSE TO...

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